Open houses are part real estate ritual, part social experiment. Whether you’re a serious buyer, just beginning your home search, or a curious neighbor (you know who you are), there’s an art to the open house experience. Consider this your friendly, slightly cheeky guide to making the most of it—without making things awkward.
What to Expect
When you step into an open house, here’s what you’ll usually encounter:
A sign-in sheet or QR code
This helps the listing agent keep track of attendance and follow up if you’re interested. It’s not a trap, promise.
Booties, shoes-off rules, or hand sanitizer
You’re walking into someone’s (often still lived-in) home. Respect for floors and surfaces is part of open house etiquette.
A warm, professional greeting
The agent is there to help. Whether you have questions about the home or just want to browse quietly, feel free to let them know your style.
How to Be a Courteous Guest
An open house isn’t the time to treat the home like your own—yet. Here’s what to keep in mind:
Yes to closets, no to medicine cabinets
Storage space is important, so feel free to peek in closets and pantries. But drawers, nightstands, and medicine cabinets are off-limits.
Respect the vibe
Loud critiques, unattended children, or lingering in bedrooms for too long can throw off the mood. Be mindful, even if it’s not your dream home.
Ask questions—tactfully
Want to know if the seller will include the appliances? Great. Just save negotiation-style questions for after the tour, especially if other buyers are around.
If You Already Have a Buyer’s Agent…
First off, awesome! Having an agent means you’re serious and well-represented.
But here’s the deal: please let the listing agent know upfront that you’re already working with someone. It’s not awkward—we promise. It’s actually a professional courtesy that helps everyone involved:
It prevents confusion about follow-up communication.
It ensures your agent gets properly looped in.
And it keeps things transparent and drama-free.
A simple “Hi, I’m already working with an agent, but I’m here to take a look,” is perfect. You’ll still get a warm welcome, and the agent will appreciate your honesty.
A Note to Our Nosy Neighbors
We get it. The house down the street just listed, and you’ve been dying to see the inside. You’re absolutely welcome—open houses are, well, open.
That said:
Please don’t pretend to be a buyer if you’re just there to compare cabinet finishes.
Try not to casually mention, “I knew the Johnsons before the remodel.”
And yes, it’s obvious when someone starts taking mental measurements for their own future reno.
We love our neighbors. Just keep it classy.
Final Tips
Take notes or snap a few photos (if allowed) so you can remember the details later.
Be honest with the agent about where you are in your home search.
Don’t forget to grab a flyer or scan the QR code before you leave.
Open houses can be a fun, informative step in your home search—or just a great way to get to know your neighborhood. Either way, we’re glad you stopped by. If you’re thinking about buying or selling, we’re here to help.